THINGS ENTAILS IN MARRIAGE

Insha Allah today our topic for discussion is things entails in marriage.

We will talking more about our dear sisters .

All praise is to Allah, we seek His help and His forgiveness. We seek refuge with Him from the evil of our own souls and from our bad deeds. Whomsoever Allah guides will never be led astray, and whomsoever Allah leaves astray, no one can guide. I bear witness that there is no god but Allah alone, with no partner or associate, and I bear witness that Muhammad is His slave and Messenger_

Dear Sister in Islam, Islam has honoured you and given you rights and obligations, which no other woman in any time and place has ever achieved before. These rights and obligations are incomparable in any human civilization. They entitle you sister to love, practice your religion (Islam) and hold fast to its teachings, which are the path to your happiness in this world and the hereafter. Therefore, in order to know your full rights and obligations which Islam has granted you, you should study Islam thoroughly and deeply. This will enable you to see clearly that this glorious religion (Islam) has given you much more than what some Muslim women, who are influenced by the Western culture, are claiming today. These westernized Muslimah are encouraging you to believe that Muslim women have no rights, that is why they are wrongly driven to fight for a cause (Feminism), which has no roots in Islam and its society. Lets look at ladies who get married to hustlers. Some will marry their wives & leave them for year, years, months before returning home.

 

Let's look at LACK OF COMMUNICATION IN MARRIAGE RELATIONSHIPS

Sorry for the bringing the hustler topic we shall dealt with it another time insha ALLAH.

Today I want to talk about communication in relationship and marriage. No matter how sincere we are, if we fail to communicate properly with our spouse, that relationship or marriage has a high risk of failing. A lack of communication leaves too much room for the imagination.

 

My question today is, how well do you communicate with your partner? How well do you know your spouse? Are you friends or just in a husband/wife relationship.

 

The sad thing is, lots of people are suffering in their relationship but can't express what is killing them to the one who is causing it so that it stops. They therefore resign to die slowly inside. Many people make their friends and family think that everything is perfect in their relationship; but in reality they are secretly suffering. There's a difference between privacy and isolation.

Don't isolate your relationship so much that no one can hear your screams in time of need. This is the cry of a dying spouse "I wish I could talk to you. I mean, to really open up and tell you everything, all of my emotions, cry on your shoulder and trust you with my heart.

I hate that you broke it whilst you were supposed to love and cherish me until death do us part". The goal in marriage is not to think alike, but to think together; for that path the two are travelling on is so narrow that, the two have to become one before they can reach their destination. For better or worse. Every day is a fight to stay together and never to give up on each other. No matter what you have gone through in your past, or anything you may go through in the future, you should know your heart is for each other. That is the beauty of marriage.

It has never been about what you could do for me? It is all about what we can build and conquer TOGETHER.

 

Above all, Relationships last long because TWO people made a choice. The decision to keep it, fight for it and work hard for it...

Some have made marriage haraam in their ears. If love is sweet, why not marry & enjoy the halal love. The is nothing beautiful than marriage for two people in love.

Enjoyment with more blessings. See how couples move around when married.

See how blessed they're & how nice they're looking.

I always say this its never too late to marry.

Marriage is a blessings of from Allah

When your time comes you'll marry. Very computacious.

May Allah make it easy for us. Aamen

Brothers and sisters, See how beautiful it looks when couples wash together, eat together, clean up together, exercise together, go for shopping, go for lectures, etc

 

DON'T MARRY A VERY JEALOUS PERSON

It’s therefore not a bad thing to be jealous, its means you love something so much that you don't want to lose it. But beside this, God gave man his free will. God doesn't control or manipulate us, God is not insecure. Are you in a relationship with someone who is so jealous, insecure, make issues out of nothing, accuse, demand, control and abuse you?

Do you have to report to them about who you met, what they said, who called or sent you messages, and so on?

 

Do they force you to upload their images on social media, change your relationship status to reflect them, tag them in your post, comment on their posts, images, etc. ?

One of the most demanding persons I have ever known in life is an insecure person. Relationships with such people always fail because they take their own insecurities and try to twist them into their partner’s flaws. Insecure partners don't see anything wrong with themselves but always with their partners. If they can't see the wrong in themselves, they will never see the right in you. Healousy is an insecure trait. Anytime jealousy enters a relationship trust leaves, turning the beautiful dream of a relationship into a nightmare. This translates to partners that love is just not enough to save the relationship.

No matter how real, loyal and humble you are with an insecure person, they will still try their hardest to find reasons, paint pictures, to make you look less than the person they genuinely know you are; in order to make themselves comfortable with their own insecurities.

Men, listen to me, if she asks to leave, set her free. If she comes back she's yours. If she don't she never was. The truth is, if someone really loves you, no matter how many other people they meet, their feelings for you wouldn't change. A real lover cannot be stolen. Anytime a lady accepts to be with you, it means she has given a part of herself that she refused to give to anyone which is her heart. What she has with you, she won’t want to have that with someone else. Never Say Goodbye When You Still Want To Try.never Give Up When You Still Feel You Can Take It.never Say You Don't Love A Person When You Can't Let Go.

 

Single Ladies;

Make sure you are healed BEFORE a GOOD MAN finds you because, if you are still broken from your former relationship you will be broken with a new one.

 

A good man can lead, counsel and hold you, but he cannot mend a heart that isn't prepared to stop looking at the old wounds.

Allow Allah to heal you.

A good relationship is the one which you can say everything without making it as a secret to your partner and without lies

May Allah bless all  marriages and grant the singles pious spouses

Aameen

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